Cheryl’s Journals

times rely flies and without realizing 2more days to go i will be 26 this year instead of 25. haha… alot of ppl say the most suitable age to find a lifepartner is betwn the age of 23-30 just right after ur deg graduation. but i do not agree, altho at these ages it may seems to be ideal to find, but i still belief tht at what age isnt the factor. what is most important here is — is one ready to take the risk? is 1 ready to face the financial challenge? is one ready to step into lifetime commitment n resposiblities? the moment a person gets into a bgr, it’s no longer so much abt romance. The reality will slowly reveal that there will be more n more resposibilities to carry out. many more other factors one hav to considr before involving urself into a relationship.
Based on my faith, i was being taught that relationship is not meant for experimentation and not even encourage to get in n out of relationships as lightly as any1 could imagine. I’m grateful that God put me in a family where i could see so many bad examples of broken marriages n adulterous cases and I knew how it was like to end up in those bad n hurtful memories and under so many bondages. Im still glad that God has been protecting me from the unnecessary harms upon making wrong decisions n possible splits in any bgr. Looking upon the peers ard me, i am stunned to see how ppl treat n deal with relationships. Solely it was based on FEELINGs alone…our feelings that is the emotions could change easily and it can be very risky n unstable. Nothg could without one if our feelings failed to meet our expectations n requirements. Thgs could turn out to be worst if you’ve to commit into a relationships that will turn out to be sadistic n full of REGRETS due to prompt decision based on FEELINGS. Im not so worried abt wat age to find a lifepartner but Im more concern to find the right type of person with the condition that he shall put God 1st in His life, mentally n spiritually mature, financially stable, love me as who I am, His strength shall be my weakness n my strength shall be his weakness - a compatible partner to make a couple as whole.

~ by cheryl82 on March 25, 2008.