weddings…
Last year has been
a year full of shocking news and storms in one’s life. Have been attending
2weddings and receiving so many wedding cards from relatives, friends and pp
lard us. The ppl surrounding us are getting attached and engagement ahead has
been planned this outlook no longer a surprise to me. At the starting point I have
to admit that I was being pressured in this area by my peers and relatives. My 1st
respond was why is the rush? Why do u have to rush into relationship just becos
every1 else is getting into it? If one gives in just becos of social pressures
then our motive to get into a relationship is it just because we do not want to
be left behind? Does it mean that the real motive behind is just to prove to
others we are in the flow? If it is so, then what is the exact meaning of love?
Loving some1 for others to see? Loving some1 for selfish motive? Examine ourselves…before
we could love others, we gotto learn to love and appreciate ourselves 1st.
Once a brother
really taught me what was it like to be a loving person. I could never forget the
time that we had the tender care that he had on me just like his own sister. By
the way, in any boy gal relationship it should always starts from being a
frend. He let me know what is it rely like to be CARED, CONSULTED, sharing the
JOY n laughter together. He is never stingy with his shower of care n love
towards any1 he would consider them as sister or brother. He made me realized
that there is still good n decent men on this earth although you’ll hear lotsa
saying that the goodmen have all died. Some even say all the goodguys have
become extinct. Nonetheless, he is the 1st one that appears into my
life to broke that old sayings. Although I would consider him as almost perfect
but there were moments that he proved to me that he is not a perfect man like
(Christ) and yet he is purely a loyal, faithful, loving, cherishing, devoted,
humble, understanding, considerate person who I would label as ‘DECENT’ guy.
He would act very
silently from behind to support you and find time to encourage you. Other than
God, he could be the guy who allows me to know what was it like to be secure in
a man’s arm.
Hearing upon that
he might be getting married soon somewhere this year is something that I would
feel deeply happy for him although how I’d ever wished the bride was me. Wherever
I go, wherever I am his image will never be vanished from my eyes and his love
for me will remain forever in my heart. Pray that he will have a good plan for
his future marriage and family. May God bless him abundantly ^_^
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