Cheryl’s Journals

There are times you might wonder why a man could have an affair/marriage
problem outside his family somewhere along in the relationship process. The
construction of a man’s emotion & body are completely separated portions,
not like woman their emotions & body are so much attached, and it is kinda
hard to draw a line between them.

Since the beginning of creation, God has created man from the dust, if
you translate into mandarin [tu] it sounds like he is an orthodox. It could
also reason why some men are insensitive [tu tu] or sometimes you call them
blur blur.

Most women
will address them as not sensitive, particular or caring enough towards them. Where
by woman was created out of the man’s ribs. This portion was filled with thousands
of blood vessels, nerves, arteries and full of flesh which is absolutely sensitive.

This explains women are naturally-borne sensitive, detailed and
emotional all the time. So, since man’s construction is different from woman,
when a man falls in love with a woman he is truly sincere and his emotion is totally
involved. But when a man accidentally gives in to some temptation of the body
and having an affair with another woman due to lack of self-control (whom he
might not love sincerely with his heart) probably a 1-nite-stand thingy, startlingly
when he is aware of what had happened the next day, maybe he found himself guilty
and return back to his spouse and tell the wife he has regretted and asked for
forgiveness cos the person he love is still her. In this situation, of course
the man is found guilty.

Therefore, a married-man could possibly commit an affair with other
woman without truly loving her [3^rd party] and yet loves his real
wife cos his emotion and physical connection operates separately. But that doesn’t
mean men could take this as a reason to be unfaithful to his wife.

~ by cheryl82 on September 8, 2007.